Here's another interesting piece of advice you'll find on our marriage quotes page:
"Ultimately the bond of all companionship, whether in marriage or in friendship, is conversation."
This quote is from Oscar Wilde who was an Irish writer from the late 1800s. One of his accomplishments was the novel "The Picture of Dorian Gray."
I really like Oscar's quote.
When you find conversation is high in a marriage, or any relationship, you'll usually find a high level of affinity as well. Of course we're talking about civil conversation here, not two people yelling and screaming at each other. Although some people will tell you that yelling at each other is better than not talking at all.
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In the next few posts, let's look at some of the marriage quotes that have been collected together on this blog.
The first one is:
"Many marriages would be better if the husband and the wife clearly understood that they are on the same side." - Zig Ziglar
It took me longer than it should have to REALLY get that my wife and I were on the same side. I recall some of the strange notions I was operating with:
"I need to win this argument no-matter-what."
"If I persist long enough or sulk loudly enough, she'll give in."
"She just doesn't understand how important this is to ME."
There were other strange notions, but let's just say I finally got the idea my wife was not a member of the opposing team. She and I were (and are) on the same team. Sometimes this idea gets lost or diminished. I'm sure there are a variety of reasons this happens, but one simple solution is to just step back and look at our spouse and say: "Hey, we're on the same side. Let's work this out together."
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